1. He is not on his purpose

2. He is broke

3. He does not understand hypergamy ( female nature)

We as human beings will always have a burning desire for companionship. We are not placed  here on earth to be alone that’s why we have the male and female, the ying and yang of procreation. The animalistic nature of creatures is to seek out the best partner overall, out of many suitors to procreate with. When you see a male peacock waving and spreading its big beautiful feathers, he is campaigning to be elected by the female. Based upon how colorful and big the feathers are the female makes her choice. Hint the term (peacockin) is derived from in adult men, when they show off materialisticly for women in hope to win her validation and attention. Women are seeking the best male suitor who’s high valued, she is thinking long term and stability.

If a man is not seeking out or on his purpose, he is failing at life and as a man to begin with. A man must have drive, he must set goals and destinations to achieve. A man’s purpose is what keeps him grounded and reason in life. If a man is not on his purpose, that means there is a high percentage he is broke. No woman wants a broke man not on his purpose and yields no value. That man should definitely not be thinking of dating, when he can’t afford the basic necessities to sustain every day life. A high valued man should always have his finances in order, not to attract women but to take care of himself properly for stability. A man not on his purpose and broke will make irrational decisions because he is out of alignment with himself. Last but definitely not least a man should not be dating, if he does not understand hypergamy.

Hypergamy (colloquially referred to as “marrying up”) is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person marrying a spouse of higher caste or social status than themselves. The term hypergyny is used to describe the overall practice of women marrying up, since the men would be marrying down. When a woman departs from her husband or boyfriend, she is looking to find someone better so she dates up. She is in search of a man who is financially stable on a higher caliber, with status and have more going on in his life. This is female nature in animals and human beings, men must not only understand but accept female nature. Female nature is natural and it is the way female creatures are wired. “There is no such thing as a unisex brain,” says neuropsychiatrist Dr. Louann Brizendine of the University of California in San Francisco and author of “The Female Brain.” Women operate and think differently than men, and mature faster. Dating is complicated only because we were not taught how to date.

Gregory Standley